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New Year's Resolutions Don't Work But Dogs Like Us To Make Changes

1/3/2014

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resolution res·o·lu·tionˌrezəˈlo͞oSHən/
noun
: a firm decision to do or not to do something.
change CHānj/
verb:
make or become different; transform.
Typist: Bethany
We're three days into 2014. How's your firm decision to do or not do something going? Yeah. That's what I thought. New Year's seems to be the only time that we humans make resolutions. The rest of the year we try to change. Couldn't people make resolutions at other times in the year? Probably. But even then such a firm noun has little chance of sustainability in the ebb and flow of our lives.

So let's take a lesson from our dogs. Let's make a concerted effort, beyond a concrete declaration one special day, night, week, month or season to fundamentally transform. And let's take it slow. One day at a time, like our dogs do. Let's try waking up each morning and saying "I'm going to potty outside." Well, maybe not that. But just one simple thing. Then after that
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I resolve to stop barking and chewing. Ha! Fooled ya' didn't I? I'm just gonna keep being cute.
task is accomplished, reward yourself by saying "I'm going to beg for my breakfast." Okay. Maybe not that either but are you getting the one doggie step at a time gist?

Human habit change is a very complex process. I learned a lot about it in my days as a personal trainer. And the bottom line is that firm, set-in-stone resolutions do not work. We just set ourselves up for failure, year after year. A better course of action is to resolve to change. Change itself is an action word and it allows for gradual transformation. Taking gradual actions towards a larger goal means you can celebrate successes and your eventual change is more likely to be permanent.  Even those lists of little goals that will get you to your big resolution can be discouraging. You might never get there. Partly because the ultimate resolution goal may change while you take the steps to get there.
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Concrete resolutions? I prefer snow, grass, sand or dirt to concrete. Oh, not that kind of concrete? Well, I like the way the seasons gradually change!
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Can't we just walk everyday?
Here's an example of the power of change*: I resolved to lose weight. I planned to accomplish this by walking everyday. And so I did. I walked everyday for a month. In that month I lost no weight and I didn't feel like I was in any better shape. So I quit. But I had been sort of successful. I managed to walk everyday. I walked when I didn't feel well or the dogs didn't want to go. Yet I didn't feel accomplished because I was still over weight. What if my desire to change had involved only walking everyday? (That's all the dogs cared about!) Maybe my resolution should have been to walk everyday. Period. No speed. No time. No distance. Just walk. Everyday. What if I just said "I will walk everyday" and go out in the cold and in the rain, late at night or early in the morning and walk everyday. It's so simple (sort of) and attainable... and it feels great! Then "walk everyday" is still what I am doing six weeks, six months, and six years later. My goal is no longer about losing weight but walking as many Cascadian marathons as I can. All from simply committing to walk everyday.

It takes more than just a firm decision to change a habit. This is another fact that is easily observable in our dogs. With commitment, patience, love and celebrations for even the tiniest
successes (anyone who has raised a puppy remembers the triumphant feeling when there was an accident on the floor while on the way to the door to go outside) you and your very grateful dog can be healthier and happier this new year and for many more to come.
*This is a true story.
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What one, simple thing are you going to work on changing this year?

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8 Comments
Molly The Wally link
1/3/2014 06:37:34 pm

No resolutions here. We decide on change when we need to not just because it is a new year and yes take it slow and steady. Have a super Saturday.
Best wishes Molly

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Bethany
1/6/2014 04:59:01 pm

Good for you, Molly. Change is always good but nothing good happens overnight... well, almost nothing. Sleep sure is good! :)

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Slimdoggy link
1/3/2014 09:09:30 pm

Interesting take on resolutions.

One thing that is great about dogs is that they teach you to celebrate the 'small wins' along the way. However one goes about making change, be sure to look at it from a dog's eye view and celebrate the journey and the small wins.

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Bethany
1/6/2014 05:00:41 pm

Everything in life is better when looked at from a dogs eye view! Thanks for hosting this great hop, as always.

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Laika link
1/3/2014 09:32:10 pm

I love your resolutions or you "not-resolutions" ha ha.

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Bethany
1/6/2014 05:02:15 pm

Thanks, Laika. We definitely prefer not-resolutions around here!

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Paws and Pedals (Scooter& Kate) link
1/4/2014 06:25:32 am

Change is always good. Making something into a Habit is a good technique - like walking everyday...trying to get into the 'habit' of working out our core muscle group so are hoping to see a positive change in that area.....Happy FitDogging

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Bethany
1/6/2014 05:05:14 pm

The Pilates instructor in me wants to know if you have mat Pilates classes in your area... a good Pilates instructor can teach you how to work and properly engage your core while you walk, bike, etc! Either way, I do hope you can make a habit of core work since the Pilates instructor in me also knows that a strong core is absolutely essential!

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